Hello! We're Nathan & Lacey Steel, your small group relational discipleship coaches.

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Whether your small group consists of couples, individuals, or just you, we want to help you develop healthy communication and build meaningful connection with the people in your life.

To accomplish this, we've assembled six 6-part series from our Coaching with Cultivate videos. Each series focuses on a specific aspect of relationships or circumstances — equipping you with tools to develop healthy mindsets and behaviors.

+ ABOUT THE CURRICULUM

Each video comes with discussion questions that will take you deeper into the concepts presented — giving you clear, practical steps to implement into your relationships or circumstances. We highly recommend going through these series in a small group setting (with 6-8 other people). However, individuals have also seen the benefit of simply sitting down and going through these videos and discussion questions themselves. So whether your small group is located in Homer, Alaska; Westport, Ireland; or somewhere in between, this curriculum can benefit you.

+ HOW TO HOST A SMALL GROUP

Hosting a small group is made simple with these video series and can be accomplished in as little as one hour a week. All you need is a location, printer, internet acccess (unless you download the video prior to the meeting), possibly some snacks, and definitely some coffee (because it's the catalyst for any successful small group). The following is a suggested schedule and is meant only to be a foundation to build from.

Welcome & Prayer (1-3 min)
Review & Discuss Previous Week's Activation (10 min)
Watch Video (10-15 min)
Discuss Questions (30 min)
Review Activation/Next Steps (5 min)
Prayer & Dismiss (1-3 min)

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SERIES 1
COMMUNICATION

In this series, you will learn how to communicate — including how to fight, talk, and apologize.

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SERIES 2
FAILURE

In this series, you will learn how to respond to failure — whether real or perceived — along with developing healthy definitions of failure, success, and God's will.

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SERIES 3
ASSUMPTIONS

In this series, you will learn what mindsets may be ruining your relationships and how you can change them along with how you can respond to the failures and mistakes of others.

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SERIES 4
FRIENDSHIP

In this series, you will learn how to influence people, make friends, make the right kind of friends, and how to become a better friend.

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SERIES 5
CONFLICT

In this series, you will learn why conflict is good and how to confront, fight, and apologies well.

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SERIES 6
DISAPPOINTMENT

In this series, you will learn how to grieve loss, resolve disappointment, and release anxiety. You will also discover that God's desire for you is to live an abundant life with a mind that is at peace.

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SERIES
RELATIONSHIP JOURNEY

In this series, you'll learn how to communicate, navigate conflict, and form healthy expectations with loved ones. You'll also uncover and address past experiences that may be shaping your current relationships, while building fresh mindsets and habits that foster strong, life-giving connections.

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CWC | Making Forced Relationships WorkIn this video, we share 3 tips for thriving in a forced relationship. This might include family members, co- workers, or just about anyone you must spend time with for one reason or another. VIEW VIDEO

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COACHING VIDEOS

Are none of our pre-made series working for you? Maybe you've already finished them all. No worries, you can build and organize your own small group curriculum — picking the studies and length of time (how many weeks) that best fit your group. Click the link below to view our entire list of Coaching with Cultivate videos — including some that we haven't included in our pre-built playlists (indicated by **_____**).

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ALL SMALL GROUP VIDEOS

CWC | How To Make FriendsIn this video, we share four tips on how to make friends and where to find them. VIEW VIDEO

CWC | Qualities Of A Good FriendIn this video, we discuss what it means to be a good friend. We also share four was you can be both vulnerable and caring to your friends. VIEW VIDEO

CWC | How To Have Close FriendsIn this video, we share three steps to adding value and depth to your friendships. VIEW VIDEO

CWC | How To Deal With Loss & GriefIn this video, Nathan and Lacey discuss how to process the loss of a loved one, a dream, a job, or maybe you just feel disappointed at how life is turning out. They will give you practical steps to living free of the pain that can often hold us back. VIEW VIDEO

CWC | Resolving DisappointmentIn this video, we discuss disappointment. Unless resolved in a healthy way, our unmet or unfulfilled expectations can result in frustration and depression. VIEW VIDEO

CWC | Dealing With Perceived FailureIn this video, we share two areas of perceived failure: relational and circumstantial. We also discuss what you can do to change these feelings of being a failure. VIEW VIDEO

CWC | Failure As DirectionIn this video, we discuss how failure may be direction in your life. God may use failure (or perceived failure) as His way of directing us. VIEW VIDEO

CWC | Failure As SuccessIn this video, we define success and what that means for you. We also look at how succeeding can be messy and include mistakes and failures. VIEW VIDEO

CWC | Knowing When To QuitIn this video, we discuss how you know when to quit your pursuit of a goal or at least shift your methods of achieving a goal. We also share two specific ways to evaluate if it is time to make this decision. VIEW VIDEO

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