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Hello! We're Nathan & Lacey Steel, your small group relational discipleship coaches.


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Whether your small group consists of couples, individuals, or just you, we want to help you develop healthy communication and build meaningful connection with the people in your life.

To accomplish this, we've assembled six 6-part series from our Coaching with Cultivate videos. Each series focuses on a specific aspect of relationships or circumstances — equipping you with tools to develop healthy mindsets and behaviors.




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SERIES 1
COMMUNICATION
In this series, you will learn how to communicate — including how to fight, talk, and apologize.

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SERIES 2
FAILURE
In this series, you will learn how to respond to failure — whether real or perceived — along with developing healthy definitions of failure, success, and God's will.

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SERIES 3
ASSUMPTIONS
In this series, you will learn what mindsets may be ruining your relationships and how you can change them along with how you can respond to the failures and mistakes of others.

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SERIES 4
FRIENDSHIP
In this series, you will learn how to influence people, make friends, make the right kind of friends, and how to become a better friend.

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SERIES 5
CONFLICT
In this series, you will learn why conflict is good and how to confront, fight, and apologies well.

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SERIES 6
DISAPPOINTMENT
In this series, you will learn how to grieve loss, resolve disappointment, and release anxiety. You will also discover that God's desire for you is to live an abundant life with a mind that is at peace.

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RELATIONSHIP JOURNEY
In this series, you'll learn how to communicate, navigate conflict, and form healthy expectations with loved ones. You'll also uncover and address past experiences that may be shaping your current relationships, while building fresh mindsets and habits that foster strong, life-giving connections.

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CWC | Dealing With Opinionated PeopleIn this episode, Nathan and Lacey will be discussing how to love and be in unity with people with whom you disagree with their opinions and viewpoints. They will also redefine what love means. VIEW VIDEO

CWC | Get Them To Stop TalkingIn this video, we share six tips to help you get someone to stop talking (or, if you’re the talker help you to stop talking). VIEW VIDEO

CWC | How To Get Someone To TalkIn this video, we share six tips to help you get someone to talk (or, if you’re the non-talker, help you begin to talk). VIEW VIDEO

CWC | The Assumptions That Are Ruining Your RelationshipsIn this video, we reveal two facts about assumptions that may be destroying your relationships. We describe two easy ways you can go from hurting your relationships to helping your relationships through your assumptions. VIEW VIDEO

CWC | What To Do When Your Negative Assumptions Aren’t WrongIn this video, we discuss the 3 ways you can believe the best about someone even when your negative assumptions about them aren’t wrong. We also reveal a perspective change that will help you appreciate them more even if they still fail to meet your expectations. VIEW VIDEO

CWC | 4 Steps For Building Healthy ExpectationsIn this video, we discuss 4 steps for building healthy expectations for the people in our life. We also reveal the leading cause of being frustrated or disappointed in those relationships. VIEW VIDEO

CWC | Tips For Fighting WellIn this video, we share three tips for how to fight well with others. Whether it’s with a spouse, family member, or friend, these three basic ground rules for any healthy argument. VIEW VIDEO

CWC | How To Make Conflict A Good ThingIn this video, we discuss the 2 negative views of confrontation. We also share 2 ways to make confrontation work for you and how you can implement them into your next conflict. VIEW VIDEO

CWC | 4 Steps To Healthy ConfrontationIn this video, we reveal 4 steps to making your confrontation healthy (or healthier). They also discuss how to immediately apply the 4 techniques if you’re an avoider or a seeker of confrontation. VIEW VIDEO

CWC | How To Apologize (Say, “I’m Sorry”)In this video, we discuss the 5 characteristics of a thoughtful apology. VIEW VIDEO


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COACHING VIDEOS


Are none of our pre-made series working for you? Maybe you've already finished them all. No worries, you can build and organize your own small group curriculum — picking the studies and length of time (how many weeks) that best fit your group. Click the link below to view our entire list of Coaching with Cultivate videos — including some that we haven't included in our pre-built playlists (indicated by **_____**).

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ALL SMALL GROUP VIDEOS

CWC | The Assumptions That Are Ruining Your RelationshipsIn this video, we reveal two facts about assumptions that may be destroying your relationships. We describe two easy ways you can go from hurting your relationships to helping your relationships through your assumptions. VIEW VIDEO

CWC | 4 Steps For Building Healthy ExpectationsIn this video, we discuss 4 steps for building healthy expectations for the people in our life. We also reveal the leading cause of being frustrated or disappointed in those relationships. VIEW VIDEO

CWC | What To Do When Your Negative Assumptions Aren’t WrongIn this video, we discuss the 3 ways you can believe the best about someone even when your negative assumptions about them aren’t wrong. We also reveal a perspective change that will help you appreciate them more even if they still fail to meet your expectations. VIEW VIDEO

CWC | Focus On StrengthsIn this video, we share 3 ways for you to focus on, enhance, and thrive in your strengths AND someone else’s. VIEW VIDEO

CWC | How To Make Conflict A Good ThingIn this video, we discuss the 2 negative views of confrontation. We also share 2 ways to make confrontation work for you and how you can implement them into your next conflict. VIEW VIDEO

CWC | 4 Steps To Healthy ConfrontationIn this video, we reveal 4 steps to making your confrontation healthy (or healthier). They also discuss how to immediately apply the 4 techniques if you’re an avoider or a seeker of confrontation. VIEW VIDEO

CWC | Tips For Fighting WellIn this video, we share three tips for how to fight well with others. Whether it’s with a spouse, family member, or friend, these three basic ground rules for any healthy argument. VIEW VIDEO

CWC | Get Them To Stop TalkingIn this video, we share six tips to help you get someone to stop talking (or, if you’re the talker help you to stop talking). VIEW VIDEO

CWC | How To Get Someone To TalkIn this video, we share six tips to help you get someone to talk (or, if you’re the non-talker, help you begin to talk). VIEW VIDEO

CWC | Influence PeopleIn this video, we address three questions that need to be answered before we spend time with someone. It might surprise you to know the extent to which you are influenced by those with whom you spend time. VIEW VIDEO