In this series, you'll learn how to communicate, navigate conflict, and form healthy expectations with loved ones. You'll also uncover and address past experiences that may be shaping your current relationships, while building fresh mindsets and habits that foster strong, life-giving connections.
Where To Begin
To get the most out of this series, we suggest watching the series videos with your fiancé, spouse, or loved one then completing the discussion questions individually. Then, come back together and discuss your answers. Depending on the time frame, we suggest completing one to three videos and discussion questions per week.To begin this series, start by watching Nathan, Lacey, and the Steel's stories below. This will help you get to know us and our story. Be sure to work through the discussion questions that go along with each video. Then take your time working through the rest of the series.
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CWC | The Steel’s StoryNathan and Lacey share their story of how they restored their marriage. Nathan struggled with a deep-rooted bitterness toward his dad, an inability to share his feelings, and a 20-year addiction to pornography. Lacey struggled with a fear that fed her explosive anger producing a need to control her husband and circumstances. VIEW VIDEO
CWC | Nathan’s StoryIn this episode, Nathan shares his story of how he overcame his addiction to pornography, isolation, and negative self-talk. Nathan struggled with a deep-rooted bitterness toward his dad, an inability to share his feelings, and a 20-year addiction to pornography. VIEW VIDEO
CWC | Lacey’s StoryIn this episode, Lacey shares her story of how she overcame her addiction to fear, anger, and control. Lacey struggled with a fear that fed her explosive anger producing a need to control people and circumstances. VIEW VIDEO
CWC | What Does God Think About YouIn this video, we discuss why it is important to receive and experience God’s love. We will also walk you through a prayer that will encourage you to hear God’s voice — listening for what He thinks about you — His specific word of love over you. VIEW VIDEO
CWC | How To Feel Loved By GodIn this episode, Nathan and Lacey reveal two ways we prevent ourselves from feeling loved by God. VIEW VIDEO
CWC | Messing Up God’s Plan For YouIn this video, we discuss whether we can mess up God’s plan for our life. The short answer is yes and no. God is infinite and bigger than any mistake we can make. But also, He’s not. VIEW VIDEO
CWC | Dealing With Perceived FailureIn this video, we share two areas of perceived failure: relational and circumstantial. We also discuss what you can do to change these feelings of being a failure. VIEW VIDEO
CWC | Resolving DisappointmentIn this video, we discuss disappointment. Unless resolved in a healthy way, our unmet or unfulfilled expectations can result in frustration and depression. VIEW VIDEO
CWC | How To Immediately Change A Bad RelationshipIn this video, Nathan and Lacey discuss how to immediately change a bad relationship TODAY in three simple (but probably not easy) steps. VIEW VIDEO
CWC | Focus On StrengthsIn this video, we share 3 ways for you to focus on, enhance, and thrive in your strengths AND someone else’s. VIEW VIDEO
CWC | Dealing With Opinionated PeopleIn this episode, Nathan and Lacey will be discussing how to love and be in unity with people with whom you disagree with their opinions and viewpoints. They will also redefine what love means. VIEW VIDEO
CWC | Get Them To Stop TalkingIn this video, we share six tips to help you get someone to stop talking (or, if you’re the talker help you to stop talking). VIEW VIDEO
CWC | How To Get Someone To TalkIn this video, we share six tips to help you get someone to talk (or, if you’re the non-talker, help you begin to talk). VIEW VIDEO
CWC | The Assumptions That Are Ruining Your RelationshipsIn this video, we reveal two facts about assumptions that may be destroying your relationships. We describe two easy ways you can go from hurting your relationships to helping your relationships through your assumptions. VIEW VIDEO
CWC | What To Do When Your Negative Assumptions Aren’t WrongIn this video, we discuss the 3 ways you can believe the best about someone even when your negative assumptions about them aren’t wrong. We also reveal a perspective change that will help you appreciate them more even if they still fail to meet your expectations. VIEW VIDEO
CWC | 4 Steps For Building Healthy ExpectationsIn this video, we discuss 4 steps for building healthy expectations for the people in our life. We also reveal the leading cause of being frustrated or disappointed in those relationships. VIEW VIDEO
CWC | Tips For Fighting WellIn this video, we share three tips for how to fight well with others. Whether it’s with a spouse, family member, or friend, these three basic ground rules for any healthy argument. VIEW VIDEO
CWC | How To Make Conflict A Good ThingIn this video, we discuss the 2 negative views of confrontation. We also share 2 ways to make confrontation work for you and how you can implement them into your next conflict. VIEW VIDEO
CWC | 4 Steps To Healthy ConfrontationIn this video, we reveal 4 steps to making your confrontation healthy (or healthier). They also discuss how to immediately apply the 4 techniques if you’re an avoider or a seeker of confrontation. VIEW VIDEO
CWC | How To Apologize (Say, “I’m Sorry”)In this video, we discuss the 5 characteristics of a thoughtful apology. VIEW VIDEO
CWC | Making Forced Relationships WorkIn this video, we share 3 tips for thriving in a forced relationship. This might include family members, co- workers, or just about anyone you must spend time with for one reason or another. VIEW VIDEO
