I’ve been in church as far back as I can remember. With few exceptions, one common thread I have seen is the idea that becoming a Christian changes your life for the better. I understand that it is technically true. But at the same time, in a more real way, it is absolutely false. … Continue reading Is your Christianity a crutch or a cross?
Author: Cultivate Relationships
STB132 | BSE | Confronting False Narratives
BIBLE SCHOOL EDITION – Pastor Scott and Nathan take aim at the false versions of the gospel that many Christians unknowingly live by. From shame-driven obedience to cheap grace disguised as freedom, they explore how distorted theology and unchallenged narratives quietly shape our faith. Drawing from personal ministry experiences, they discuss when it’s necessary to confront teachers, peers, and even ourselves. This conversation is a call to examine not just what we believe, but who told us to believe it — and to courageously realign with the truth of Jesus.
Is your testimony an Instagram post?
Taking family photos is like having an emergency tooth extraction… without pain killers… and it will probably (read: absolutely) cost you more money than you budgeted. These “family bonding” moments are made even more “enjoyable” by the fact that you know that one person is determined to post the perfect photo to Instagram. That… Continue reading Is your testimony an Instagram post?
STB131 | BSE | Freedom Starts with Honesty E2
BIBLE SCHOOL EDITION – Pastor Scott and Nathan unpack what it means to live a Jesus-story worth sharing. From vulnerability and accountability to the role of community and spiritual growth, they challenge the idea that transformation must look hyper-spiritual. Instead, they offer practical steps to walk in freedom — steps that involve real people, real stories, real freedom, and real victory. They discuss the importance of knowing what Jesus has saved you from — not just theologically, but personally and practically. Whether you’re in the middle of your mess or learning how to turn it into a testimony, this episode is a relatable invitation to let God shape your story through honest community and daily faithfulness. *Please note, this discussion takes place in two episodes. This is episode two.*
Is screen discipleship really a thing?
About 20 years ago, my wife and I owned a production company. We created videos and designed graphics for churches and ministries (click the following link to view our super secret video project archive playlist: https://rumble.com/playlists/II8gOCGIiVo ). Additionally, we served as the creative directors for the church we attended. I prioritized everything to be the… Continue reading Is screen discipleship really a thing?
STB130 | BSE | Freedom Starts with Honesty E1
BIBLE SCHOOL EDITION – Nathan and Pastor Scott dive into what it takes to build spiritually mature relationships marked by humility, repentance, and growth. They explore how real connection requires more than surface-level friendship — it demands a willingness to confront sin, seek forgiveness, and walk in grace. They also encourage us to pursue relationships that reflect the transforming power of the gospel through honesty, accountability, and love. *Please note, this discussion takes place in two episodes. This is episode two.*
You weren’t designed for social media.
Social media seemed to be a good idea for a generation that felt disconnected. It met a felt need. Facebook was for friends. Instagram was originally for unfiltered photos. Since then, we have been inundated with platforms that purport to “connect” us: Twitter, I mean X, Snapchat, TikTok, Pinterest, Telegram, LinkedIn, and more. Social media… Continue reading You weren’t designed for social media.
STB129 | Youth Ministry + Pastor Kevin E2
Nathan and Pastor Kevin continue their discussion about the challenges of balancing ministry, marriage, and parenting. As a Youth Pastor, Kevin reflects on his desire to be a supplemental voice in students’ lives — not a replacement for spiritually engaged parents. Together, they discuss how youth ministry should support what’s happening at home, not carry it. Kevin opens up about the pressures of leadership, the importance of putting his marriage first, and the lessons learned from marriage counseling and personal failures. He also shares how his upbringing shaped his views on emotional vulnerability — and why he’s committed to being open with his wife. They dive deep into parenting, calling out the dangers of disengagement and the power of simply being present. Kevin’s advice to parents: ask real questions, build trust daily, and don’t let fear or shame keep you from connecting with your kids. Whether you’re in ministry or not, this episode reminds us that consistency, honesty, and grace are the foundations of impactful relationships. *Please note, this discussion takes place in two episodes. This is episode two.*
What if God parented like we do?
Let’s be real: if God parented like we sometimes do — distracted, reactive, or just running the same script for every situation — we’d be in trouble. But thankfully, He doesn’t. God parents us moment by moment. He’s not relying on a rigid formula. He’s present — paying attention to who we are, what… Continue reading What if God parented like we do?
STB128 | Youth Ministry + Pastor Kevin E1
Nathan shoots the breeze with Pastor Kevin, where they swap stories about fishing (or, in Nathan’s case, the complete inability to catch anything). They discuss how our connection with God shifts through life’s changing seasons and the chaos of parenting. They also explore how spiritual growth doesn’t always happen in quiet solitude, but often through the loud, messy, and beautiful moments of ordinary life. *Please note, this discussion takes place in two episodes. This is episode one.*
