In this third part, Phil Reeves continues interviewing Nathan, where he dives into his struggle with people apologizing, why he hates accountability partners, and the devotionals that have shaped him. He shares his journey of learning to feel, wrestling with anger, trusting in God’s goodness, and the male role models who influenced his life. This honest conversation explores the challenges of personal growth, faith, and the people who shape Nathan along the way. *Please note, this discussion takes place in three episodes. This is episode three.*
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Confession: Not Just Something To Do After We Sin
I recently had to move a piano. I knew doing it myself would end up in my death… or at minimum, a very high emergency room bill that would inevitably lead to hernia surgery. So I called my friends. I have learned to deal with temptation the same way — struggling alone makes victory unnecessarily… Continue reading Confession: Not Just Something To Do After We Sin
STB111 | Behind the Pages of UnLove + Phil P1:E2
In this second part, Phil Reeves continues interviewing Nathan, where he opens up about the weight of living a double life in his addiction to pornography, the pain of public church discipline after being a youth pastor who went to a strip club, and the redemption he and Lacey walked through with their church. He also explores the danger of expecting others to fully understand our story, the balance between empathy and clarity in ministry, and how his struggles have shaped the way he helps others on their journey to healing. *Please note, this discussion takes place in three episodes. This is episode two.*
God’s Love Puts Us First
Several years ago, one of my daughters had asked for a glass of coke before bed. I explained that there is no such thing as bedtime coke. She stared at me with big, confused eyes, completely unaware that my denying her something so sweet was for her good. In a way, we’re a lot like… Continue reading God’s Love Puts Us First
STB110 | Behind the Pages of UnLove + Phil P1:E1
Phil Reeves interviews Nathan to uncover the real-life stories that inspired his book UnLove. In this heartfelt conversation, Nathan shares the personal experiences, struggles, and lessons that shaped the principles outlined in the book. From moments of heartbreak to breakthroughs of grace, he offers an honest look at the theology woven into each chapter, revealing the raw and relatable journey behind its creation. This discussion is a powerful glimpse into the connection between Nathan’s own story and the message of UnLove. *Please note, this discussion takes place in three episodes. This is episode one.*
God Untangles Life’s Knots (Even the Ones We Create)
One of my biggest pet peeves used to be untangling my earbuds after discovering them carelessly tossed into my computer bag. As much as I wanted to blame my wife or daughters for the mess, the truth was, it was my own fault. I simply didn’t take the time to roll them up neatly and… Continue reading God Untangles Life’s Knots (Even the Ones We Create)
STB109 | Coping & Resolving Loss + Sarah P2:E2
Nathan continues his conversation with his friend, Sarah Frerking, where she vulnerably shares her journey through the devastating experiences of miscarriages and the loss of their firstborn son, Josiah. In this powerful discussion, Sarah reflects on how she processed her grief, initially in unhealthy ways, but eventually discovered a path to healing. She speaks openly about how her grief journey transformed, ultimately leading her to a place of unexpected gratitude for Josiah’s death. This conversation offers profound insights into the complexities of grief, healing, and the hope that can emerge from even the deepest loss. *Please note, this discussion takes place in two episodes. This is episode two.*
The Power of Giving Thanks
In the face of difficult people and circumstances, giving thanks to God can feel like the last thing we want to do. Yet, it’s in those moments of difficulty that gratitude holds the greatest power. Choosing to thank God —even despite circumstances — doesn’t ignore the pain; it redirects our focus back to His unchanging… Continue reading The Power of Giving Thanks
STB108 | Coping & Resolving Loss + Sarah P2:E1
Nathan continues his conversation with his friend, Sarah Frerking, where she vulnerably shares her journey through the devastating experiences of miscarriages and the loss of their firstborn son, Josiah. In this powerful discussion, Sarah reflects on how she processed her grief, initially in unhealthy ways, but eventually discovered a path to healing. She speaks openly about how her grief journey transformed, ultimately leading her to a place of unexpected gratitude for Josiah’s death. This conversation offers profound insights into the complexities of grief, healing, and the hope that can emerge from even the deepest loss. *Please note, this discussion takes place in two episodes. This is episode one.*
Colorblind and Unresolved Issues — How Are You Harming Those Around You
As someone who’s colorblind, I’ve learned that not seeing certain colors can be dangerous. Like when I can’t tell the difference between red and yellow flashing lights at night — so I don’t know if I should stop or if we can nonchalantly drive through an intersection. Our unresolved issues are similar to being colorblind.… Continue reading Colorblind and Unresolved Issues — How Are You Harming Those Around You
