Let’s be honest — temptation can feel like an onslaught of exhausting and unstoppable attacks. And too many of us treat it like we’re supposed to overcome just by “trying harder”. Some of us have even been told, “just don’t do it”. What’s worse, depending upon the culture and people we are around, some of us have socially acceptable sins that are encouraged and applauded. But you weren’t designed to be victorious by yourself. You were designed to be more than a conqueror with community AND the Holy Spirit.
Here are some steps to help you create real, practical victory in your life:
1. Know What You’re Up Against (A Real Enemy)
You have to first be honest. What kind of temptations are most common for you? (1 Corinthians 10.13). Identify the patterns and triggers (Proverbs 7.6-27). Is it a person, place, or time of day? Are you just tired or stressed out? Pay attention to the red flags — and don’t go back to your old mess like a dog to its vomit (Proverbs 26.11).
2. War Game Your Attack (Before the Battle Starts)
Think ahead. What’s your go-to response when temptation shows up? Does it work? If not, switch it up! (Nehemiah 4, Colossians 2.15). Plan some offensive and defensive moves: call a friend, pray out loud, quote Scripture, walk away, confess early. And remember — there is always a way out (1 Corinthians 10.13).
3. Be Encouraged (Not Just Accountable)
Confess. Repent. Forgive (1 John 1.8-9; Matthew 6.14-15; Ephesians 4.25-32). But don’t just track failures — find someone who builds you up. An encouragement partner reminds you who you are in Christ (Romans 6.1-14) and helps you fix your eyes on what’s true (Philippians 4.8). That’s how your mind gets renewed (Ephesians 4.23, 31).
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When the enemy whispers, “You’ll never be victorious,” you don’t argue — you just point to Jesus and say, “He already did.” Don’t give the enemy a stage in your mind to preach.
This week, think about one temptation that usually catches you off guard — and who is one person you can go to who will encourage you and help you develop a new plan the next time it comes knocking?
God bless —
Nathan
