In this episode, Nathan shoots the breeze with his oldest brother, Jeremy. Jeremy has a daughter with whom he shares custody. We discuss when and how to compromise along with how to maintain consistency. We also discuss our experience growing up in church and how discipleship and evangelism may not be what we were traditionally… Continue reading STB029 | Co-Parenting + Jeremy Steel | Cultivate Relationships
Podcast: Shoot the Breeze
Our podcast, Shoot the Breeze, celebrates the messiness of life, relationships, and Christianity. Mostly, it is us shooting the breeze (sometimes with guests) while occasionally saying something important.
STB028 | Control + John Barclay | Cultivate Relationships
In this episode, Nathan shoots the breeze with John Barclay, a husband, dad, software security salesman, and a volunteer leader with Cultivate. We discuss how the home he grew up in affected his marriage. He talks about his struggle with needing to be in control and learn healthy forms of conflict in his marriage. To… Continue reading STB028 | Control + John Barclay | Cultivate Relationships
STB027 | Anxiety + Lauren Barclay | Cultivate Relationships
In this episode, Nathan shoots the breeze with Lauren Barclay, a wife, mom, and a volunteer leader with Cultivate. The trauma Lauren faced growing up resulted in anxiety that often fed thoughts of her circumstances ending in worst-case scenarios. She talks about how this anxiety impacted her marriage and parenting. To watch the video version… Continue reading STB027 | Anxiety + Lauren Barclay | Cultivate Relationships
STB026 | Devotions | Cultivate Relationships
In this episode, Nathan and Lacey shoot the breeze about devotional times and bible reading. The “Christianese” is strong in this one. They both share how their times with God have changed throughout their lives along with some recommendations that may help you get more out of your quiet times. If you’re unfamiliar with what… Continue reading STB026 | Devotions | Cultivate Relationships
STB025 | Science + Daniel Diemer | Cultivate Relationships
In this episode, Nathan shoots the breeze with Daniel Diemer, a senior power grid operator for a Texas electric company. In his time in the Navy, he was a nuclear electrician on a submarine. They discuss evolution and the role religion plays in science. To watch the video version or access all of our episodes… Continue reading STB025 | Science + Daniel Diemer | Cultivate Relationships
STB024 | Cultish | Cultivate Relationships
In this episode, Nathan and Lacey shoot the breeze about spiritual abuse. Lacey shares her story of being at Master’s Commission — a ministry school that marginalized unpopular students and treated dropouts like they had given up on Jesus himself. Nathan describes what it was like growing up in a house with a spiritually abusive… Continue reading STB024 | Cultish | Cultivate Relationships
STB023 | Accountability | Cultivate Relationships
In this episode, Nathan and Lacey shoot the breeze about accountability partners. *SPOILER ALERT* They do not like them. But they do talk about something that has been proven very effective for changing unhealthy mindsets and habits. Also, they fight about their new studio/office arrangement. To watch the video version or access all of our… Continue reading STB023 | Accountability | Cultivate Relationships
STB022 | Decisions | Cultivate Relationships
In this episode, Nathan and Lacey shoot the breeze about how they make decisions. Lacey tells the story of how they pursued her healthcare and surgery (and the decisions they made along the way). They also make a decision about how they will parent their girls right before your ears. To watch the video version… Continue reading STB022 | Decisions | Cultivate Relationships
STB021 | Random | Cultivate Relationships
In this episode, Nathan and Lacey shoot the breeze by asking each other random questions. From politics to childhood fears, they ask questions from a book they used to get to know each other while they were dating. To watch the video version or access all of our episodes and resources, visit our website at:… Continue reading STB021 | Random | Cultivate Relationships
STB020 | Messy | Cultivate Relationships
In this episode, Nathan and Lacey shoot the breeze about their ideal dates, how the Holy Spirit has been speaking to them lately, and — for the first time in their marriage — how God has been calling them in directions for this season of life. To watch the video version or access all of our… Continue reading STB020 | Messy | Cultivate Relationships